Angela Walton-Raji and new friend and family contact,Colin Kelley
Angela descends from Choctaw Freedmen once owned by the Perry family.
Colin is an enrolled Choctaw and descends from the Perry-Sexton family.
Colin is an enrolled Choctaw and descends from the Perry-Sexton family.
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Sallie Walton, Choctaw Freedwoman
My gr. grandmother
Now this is not the first time that a descendant of a slave has met the descendant of a slave owner. But this is probably one of the first times that this has taken place between a Native American slave owner descendant, and a descendant of Native American held slaves. And--what also made this story special is that they contacted me.
One day last summer, I got an email. A gentleman living near Tulsa Oklahoma wrote to me. He had seen my name mentioned briefly in the article in the Chronicle of Oklahoma. The man in Oklahoma decided to write to me, reaching out and he hoped, as he had said that I would reply.
Copy of email received in August 2009
Over and over again---the name appeared--and it was Nail Perry. Nail Perry was a prominent man in his Choctaw community in and around Skullyville, and his word greatly influenced my family's enrollment and receipt of land allotments in what is now LeFlore County Oklahoma. Most importantly--Nail Perry also confirmed the tie that my family had to his family and that they were indeed slaves from the family.
Portion of Dawes Interview
Source: Choctaw Freedmen Application Jacket M1301
National Archives
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Slave Census of 1860 showing some of the Nail Perry's and some of the family, each one owning 1 slave
Source: National Archives 1860 U.S. Federal Census - Slave Schedules
And now, here was Nail Perry's descendant writing to me directly. Wow!
After recovering quickly from my shock, I responded to this man--Mr. Colin Kelley and his own interest in history of both the family and the local area was just as as strong as mine. I should mention that my close friends and I have documented a number of cemeteries in the LeFlore County Oklahoma area and my colleague Tonia Holleman and I have researched a number of the Freedmen families from the same community. And now here was a man who had lived in the very same community and who not only shared an interest in the local history---he was connected to my family--historically.
Over the next several weeks our exchanges were friendly, and he too expressed curiosity about our families and their relationship. If something occurred to him he would share it with me, and if an idea occurred to me, I would pass it to him. I told him about our cemetery projects and he said he would enjoy trying to locate some of the older ones for me. His kindness was genuine and it was appreciated.
When I made plans last fall, to attend a conference in western Arkansas in January,---close to the eastern Oklahoma where he lived and where my ancestors lived---I told him that I was coming, and that it would be nice if we had a chance to meet. He agreed.
An unexpected snowfall hit the area that week, but by Thursday of that week---it had melted. So, Colin Kelley and his cousin Dick Perry, ventured into Van Buren Arkansas to meet me a descendant of one of the slaves once owned by their ancestor, Nail Perry.
When their car pulled up---a light rain was falling washing away the remaining snow---and Colin the gentleman who contacted me, came up the walk, materials in hand---some documents, and some of his own family photos. Behind him came a mild mannered soft spoken man--his cousin Dick Perry.
They entered the home of my friend Tonia's whose home I was staying in that week, and initial handshakes were made. Realizing this moment was significant---I did remember to take a photo right away.
L-R Angela Walton-Raji, Dick Perry, Tonia Holleman, Colin Kelly
(both Dick and Colin Kelly are enrolled Choctaws)
We retreated into Tonia's library, and began to chat. I had to thank them both for traveling in the unpredictable Arkansas/Oklahoma weather, and then we got down to exchanging data.
He pulled out records, and so did I. I had proceedings from the trial of ancestor Jackson Crow, and also records pertaining to other relatives. He had photos of his own family---clearly a blended family of Choctaws and he shared those wonderful images with me.
Ancestors of Colin Kelly
I admired his family photos I noted how some of his relatives resembled some of my own family. I also shared a photo of my Uncle Joe, and both of them noted how Uncle Joe resembled a member of their family as well.
Mr. Gr.Uncle Joe Perry
We talked about my ancestor who was put on trial at Judge Parker's Court, and we also discussed our thoughts on what may have happened in that case. In the court proceedings the same name appeared again---Nail Perry. In that file, Nail Perry mentioned that the man on trial--Jackson Crow-- was also indirectly connected to him. Crow's mother was Kitty, sometimes called "Old Kit". Well Kitty was my Sallie's grandmother! Kitty was the mother of Amanda (Sallie's mother.)
I had so many questions that day---and one being---where might Amanda, and Kitty be buried? But that, they did not know.
Since that time though, we have occasionally spoken by phone, and we have emailed often, and as recently as this week, "Cousin Colin" has made calls on my behalf, inquiring about long forgotten black cemeteries in the area, and he might have gotten a lead to follow.
We now share the search to identify where Kitty, Amanda and gr. grandpa Samuel, might be buried. I hope to visit the area again soon, and to have the privilege of his showing me the community where two abandoned African American cemeteries might be.
Simply said----that first meeting earlier this year was one in which we met as strangers, and departed as friends.
Angela & "Cousin Dick" Perry
I read often about the need for healing, especially between slave owner descendants and descendants of the enslaved. I am inspired by the efforts from the Coming to the Table program. But then---I pause and I realize-----how fortunate I am.
Out of the blue, I was contacted and brought to the table by a man who has since become my friend. I realize that our histories, our lives and our families intersected in the small Choctaw community in eastern Oklahoma. For that I am grateful.
Perhaps we were blessed by the ancestors----Kitty (Old Kit) ---Nail Perry, Amanda, Jackson Crow , and my Sallie and so many more, whose names are not known.
I think that somehow they too now have come to the table, not as master-slave, but as friends and as family.
We came to the table, and we now walk along the same road.